+ Do you pretend you’re imagining it?
+ Do you ignore it and hope the suspicion goes away?+ Do you just carry on the relationship as normal?+ Do you run away from the relationship never knowing the truth?+ Or, do you confront your partner outright with your suspicions?
+ A private investigator will act impartially and report objectively on any findings.+ They have the skills and training with particular methods to conduct infidelity investigations.+ They have the specialist private investigator equipment enabling them to document and record evidence.+ They can act as a professional witness in future divorce court proceedings.
+ When you contact a private investigator be mindful of how you do it. If your suspected partner finds your emails, voicemails, or text messages to the investigator - it’s game over.
+ Once you hire a PI don’t tell anyone, not even your best friend - who could be the suspect your spouse is cheating with. If you tell people, people talk, and some like to gossip. DON’T TELL ANYONE not even your mother.+ Give as much information as you can, especially on any suspicions who you think your spouse could be cheating with. The investigator will ask all the pertinent questions so just be honest with them and tell them everything.+ DON’T investigate alongside the investigator unless they specifically ask you to do something. “Helping” the investigator can arouse suspicions in your spouse. Let the professionals do their job, it’s what you’re paying them for.+ Behave normally. If you start acting unusually odd, particularly asking suspicious questions of your partner or friends, you risk harming the investigation. Pretend things are normal, as best you can.