Ok, so you suspect your partner is cheating on you but you’re not 100% sure and don’t want to rock the boat and cause waves.
Maybe you don't want to upset an already troubled relationship, so what do you do?
+ Do you pretend you’re imagining it?+ Do you ignore it and hope the suspicion goes away?+ Do you just carry on the relationship as normal?+ Do you run away from the relationship never knowing the truth?+ Or, do you confront your partner outright with your suspicions?
Once you get a suspicion in your mind about your partner’s unfaithfulness that seed of doubt will be left to grow and fester, making the relationship more and more sour.
Whatever you do in the above “solutions” can be disastrous. But out of those solutions - the last one is the best – WHY – because it’s better for your survival to know than not.
If you avoid, ignore, or runaway from the problem, the problem will still remain a problem and become bigger. Confronting a suspected cheating spouse with your suspicions is better that burying your head in the dirt.
Confronting your wife, husband, boyfriend, girlfriend, of whom you think is cheating on you can give you the power to do something about it. The choice of whether you want to end the relationship or continue it (by fixing it up with marriage counselling) can only be had by knowing the truth. You have to know what needs to be fixed.
The truth could be your partner is cheating on you and your suspicion is right, but the truth could also be something entirely different and dare it be said – your own insecurities.
The bottom line - finding out the truth of infidelity enables you to do something about you and your relationship.
But there are different ways to go about confronting the situation and finding out if your spouse is cheating or not. If you run straight in with all guns blazing, with no hard evidence of cheating, what do you think will happen? Especially if your suspicion is actually not true. You may create an even bigger problem than what you already had and lose your partner forever.
One way that can help catch a cheating partner is through the hiring of a private investigator. But what does that entail?